梅花4 – LYS36 ☀ 筆記僅供參考（有上榜2次）

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出生日若為以下日期者
即本命牌為梅花4 之人
↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓
04 月 30 日 →（金牛座守護星牌：黑桃J）
05 月 28 日 →（雙子座守護星牌：方塊2）
06 月 26 日 →（巨蟹座守護星牌：紅心6）
07 月 24 日 →（獅子座守護星牌：梅花4）
08 月 22 日 →（獅子座守護星牌：梅花4）或（處女座守護星牌：方塊2）
09 月 20 日 →（處女座守護星牌：方塊2）
10 月 18 日 →（天秤座守護星牌：黑桃J）
11 月 16 日 →（天蠍座守護星牌：梅花8 及黑桃8）
12 月 14 日 →（射手座守護星牌：方塊6）

♣4：Mental Satisfaction
梅花4：心智的滿足

【 Description of the ♣4 Person 】
【梅花4的人格特質】

Though this is a card of stability, the underlying ♣5 also indicates a hidden restlessness that can manifest in several ways.
雖然梅花4這張牌是一張穩定的牌，但梅花4潛藏的(梅花5)業力牌也指出，隱藏的焦躁不安可能以好幾種方式顯化。

These people are progressive and can utilize this to create new ideas in their chosen line of work, rather than let the restlessness keep them from achieving any success.
梅花4這些人是先進的，可以利用這點在選定的工作行業中創造新點子，而不是讓焦躁不安使他們無法達致任何成就。

These people know what they know and are not likely to change their minds on your behalf unless they see the value of change for themselves.
這些人知道自己知道什麼，除非梅花4他們親眼看見改變的價值，否則不可能因你的立場而改變心意。

“Stubborn" may describe them better in many cases.
許多案例顯示，用『固執』形容梅花4比較貼切。

They are fond of argument, since they usually win, and usually do well in legal matters.
他們喜歡辯論，因為通常會贏，而且在法律事務方面通常表現出色。

They have a good constitution and are not afraid of hard work.
梅花4體質好，不怕辛苦。

This is a successful card.
是一張成功的牌。

They are good at sales work and enjoy talking about what they believe in.
他們擅長銷售工作，樂於談論自己的信念。

They are popular and do well in groups.
他們人氣旺，在團體中表現出色。

As long as they don’t let their love of debate get out of hand, they will keep a fine reputation in their work.
只要不讓自己對辯論的熱愛失控，就會在工作方面保有良好的聲譽。

However, they also want a successful love life and this is their major life challenge.
不過，梅花4也想要成功的愛情生活，而這是他們重大的人生挑戰。

Often the drive and determination of the ♣4 masks a desire to be accepted by others, the same acceptance that they find difficulty in giving themselves.
梅花4的幹勁和決心時常遮蔽了渴求被他人接受的渴望，同樣的，他們也發覺很難接納自己。

In other cases, their desire for work success competes with their desire for love and affection.
其他時候，他們對工作成功的渴望與對愛和情感的渴望相互競爭。

Their last years of life are often the most successful and they usually end up with much financial opulence or protection.
晚年往往是梅花4最成功的時候，通常最終得到豐厚的財富或保護。

The ♣4 collectively are the “keepers of knowledge."
梅花4全都是『知識的保管人』。

They show us that information has a practical value and that we can be happy and successful by applying what we already have.
他們讓我們看見，資訊具有實際的價值，我們可以因應用自己已然擁有的東西而快樂、成功。

【 Some of the ♣4 Issues Concerning Relationships 】
【梅花4的親密關係課題】

Though it can manifest in many ways, the ♣4 need for affection is a major issue in their life.
儘管可以顯化在許多方面，但梅花4對情感的需求卻是人生的一大課題。

Combined with a certain restlessness and fear of commitment it can, in some cases, be the cause for untold painful relationships.
這個課題結合了某種焦躁不安以及對承諾的恐懼，某些時候更可能造成難以言喻的痛苦關係。

This is not true for all of them though.
但並不是每一個梅花4都適用。

Their basic karma in love is good.
他們的基本情緣是好的。

If they can find a partner who also appreciates a little space, they will be happier.
如果能夠找到同樣欣賞彼此有些空間的伴侶，他們一定會更開心。

Their ♠J in Venus tells us that they must also watch for a tendency to be attracted to those of low reputation and morality.
(黑桃J)在梅花4的(金星)行星牌位置告訴我們，梅花4還必須留意，梅花4他們容易被聲譽不佳和道德低落的人所吸引。

If they are choosing to operate on the lower side, they can be some of the most romantic but dishonest lovers in the deck, or they will attract others with these characteristics.
如果選擇在較低階的層面操作，梅花4可以是整副撲克牌中最浪漫但不誠實的情人之一，不然就是，梅花4他們會吸引到有這些特徵的對象。

Many are drawn to artists or others in the creative fields, but these are often the ones with questionable characteristics.
許多梅花4被藝術家或其他創意工作者所吸引，但這些人往往具有不可靠的特徵。

This same ♠J can be expressed on a higher level as an attraction to those with a more spiritual perspective on life, and these relationships generally fare better.
同樣這張(黑桃J)也可以在較高階的層次表現，吸引到對人生擁有較多靈性觀點的對象，因此這些關係通常進展得較為順利。

【 Profile ： The Four of Clubs’s Love Life 】
【梅花4之人格側寫 – 小心愛情騙子】

Because the ♣4 has the ♠J in their Venus position, they are very predisposed to having relationships with those who are dishonest or of lower morals.
因為(黑桃J)在梅花4的(金星)行星牌位置，所以梅花4很容易與不誠實或道德低下的人發生關係。

The ♠J is the card of the actor and the thief.
(黑桃J)是演員兼小偷牌。

So, ♣4 are often found with musicians, artists, actors, or those of questionable motives or values.
因此，常會發現梅花4與音樂家、藝術家、演員或是動機或價值觀有問題的人在一起。

Even when happily married, the ♣4 should be somewhat wary of their mates.
即使幸福快樂地結婚了，梅花4還是應該稍微提防一下自己的配偶。

For example, one ♣4 woman was happily married for 30 years.
舉個例子，一個梅花4女性幸福快樂地過了三十年的婚姻生活。

Then her husband died.
然後丈夫去世了。

After his death, she found out that for over 20 years, he had been having affairs with other women.
丈夫去世後，她發現，二十多年來，丈夫一直與其他女性有染。

However, he had so cleverly disguised it that she never once suspected it.
不過，丈夫非常巧妙地隱瞞了這個事實，因此她從沒懷疑過。

The ♠J card aptly describes the way he behaved in their relationship.
這張(黑桃J)巧妙地描繪了丈夫在兩人關係中行為表現。

The ♠J card is the strongest of the Jacks, all of whom have the potential to be liars when their creative energy is expressed in a negative manner.
(黑桃J)這張牌是騎士J中最強的，當他們的創意能量以負面方式表達時，每一個騎士J都有說謊的潛力。

Since he is the strongest of these Jacks, the ♠J is usually associated with more dramatic examples of both the positive and negative sides of the Jack.
由於(黑桃J)是這些騎士J中最強的，因此通常與比較戲劇性的實例相關聯，同時表現出騎士J的正面和負面。

For the ♣4, this ♠J tells us either that they can be very dishonest in their own love life or that they attract others who are.
對梅花4來說，這個(黑桃J)告訴我們，要麼，梅花4他們可以在自己的愛情生活中非常不誠實，要麼，梅花4他們吸引到非常不誠實的其他人。

This can include lying about their true intentions; using others for sex, emotional security, or money; never meaning what they say; and being completely unable to trust anyone else.
這可能包括瞞騙了他們的真實意圖；為了性慾、情感保障或金錢而利用他人；向來言不由衷；完全無法信任他人。

It is true that a liar cannot believe anyone else.
確實，騙子不可能相信別人的。

Take the case of the following ♣4 woman who examplifies one of these patterns in her relationships, often with musician and dead-beat types.
舉下述梅花4女性為例，她在親密關係中示現了這些模式之一，這位梅花4女性基本上經歷了許多關係，對象常是音樂家和吃軟飯的。

These relationships always have the theme of somebody using somebody else.
這些關係的主題總是某人利用另外一個人。

Usually it is her that is getting used, since she has more money than most of them.
通常，被利用的是她，因為她往往比對方有錢。

Once, she revealed that she used her money to attract them and keep them, because secretly she didn’t think that she was enough all by herself.
有一次，她透露說，她用自己的錢吸引對方並留住對方，因為私底下她認為，孑然一身是不夠的。

This was interesting since she seemed to be an attractive and successful woman who would not need any help attracting a mate.
這很有意思，因為她似乎是一個迷人而成功的女性，不需要任何其他條件幫她吸引配偶。

However, each time she let the money issue come up in her relationships, it ended shortly thereafter with her feeling used and, in some cases, robbed.
然而，每當她讓關係中的金錢課題浮上檯面，關係不久之後就會結束，然後她覺得自己被利用了，有時候更是被劫掠了。

The other side of the ♠J is a signpost to happiness for the ♣4, whether they be male or female.
無論是梅花4男性或梅花4女性，(黑桃J)的另一面是梅花4通向幸福快樂的指標。

This powerful Jack, which can represent dishonest and deception, can also represent spiritual initiation.
這個強大的騎士可以代表不誠實和欺騙，也可以代表靈性的啟蒙。

In this context, spiritual initiation means realizing that a better life is available to us and then making the change to a more positive expression, one guided by higher principles and truth.
在此情況下，靈性的啟蒙意味著，領悟到我們可以活出更好的人生，然後做出改變，從此表現得比較正向，那是由更高的法則和真理引導的。

♣4 who are happily married are usually those who have decided on a philosophy of life that is important to them and then made the commitment to that philosophy.
開開心心結婚的梅花4通常已經根據對他們很重要的人生哲理做出了決定，然後對那個哲理做出承諾。

Truthfulness is a common example of a philosophy that could change one’s life if practiced every day.
真實是人生哲理中常見的，如果天天練習，就可以改變一個人的人生。

The ♣4 first has to be honest with himself (or herself) about the fears that tempt them into making choices that result in such negative results.
梅花4首先必須對自己誠實，坦承是什麼恐懼引誘他們做出導致如此負面結果的選擇。

With self-honesty and, later, honesty with those around them, they will discover the truth about themselves and their romantiv attachments.
先是對自己誠實，然後對身旁的人誠實，他們將會發現自己和自己對浪漫執著的真相。

This can lead them to a high spiritual state in their love life that few other cards will have the opportunity to experience.
這可以引導梅花4在情愛生活方面來到高度靈性的狀態、這是其他撲克牌少有機會經驗到的。

To have a relationship suided by a philosophy of truth can bring incredible intimacy and profound love experiences.
擁有一份由真實的人生哲理引導的關係，可以帶來難以置信的親密和深邃的愛的體驗。

Inwardly this is what all ♣4 are longing for and what is available to them once they make the change.
內心深處，這是所有梅花4渴望的，也是一旦他們做出改變，就可以得到的。

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梅花4 的第一張業力牌：梅花5 ( 亦即梅花4 欠梅花5 )
梅花4 的第二張業力牌：紅心6 ( 亦即紅心6 欠梅花4 )

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以上文字參考自撲克命牌我的愛情該書

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